Jess is lonely. “Time to see an astrologer,” she thinks.
Jess desperately wants to meet Mr. Right, get married and have three or four kids.
She’s already done her rounds on the dating scene to no avail. Coffee dates from dating site men, blind dates through friends and even random connections at get-togethers.
No Mr. Right in sight.
So Jess cuts to the chase when she sits down with the astrologer. “What do you see in my stars??”
The astrologer, a wise-looking gray-bearded man, pauses for a moment to breathe deeply before speaking.
“For the first 36 years of your life, you will be fraught with loneliness.”
“Okay! Well, I’m 35 now, so what happens after 36?”
The astrologer pauses again, then locks eyes with Jess.
“You’ll get used to it.”
Not exactly what our gal wanted to hear!
But the astrologer still pointed out an important lesson:
You can control how you feel, regardless of what you have or don’t have.
Easier said than done if you don’t have food, but not having Mr. Right isn’t the same as starving.
The happier you become, the more magnetic you become to Mr. Right.
That’s been a consistent theme among my clients. For example, I remember one woman who initially came for help just feeling happier. She said “I feel broken. Help fix me.”
Almost immediately, she gushed that she also wanted to meet a man.
Guess what? She met a great guy a few months into our unknotting her issues.
Same for me. That’s how I ultimately attracted in my darling wife, Nesit.
You can do it, too.
Notice when you’re not happy and reflect on why. You’ll find which beliefs are holding back your happiness.
For attracting your Mr. Right, all my clients start with the Soulmate Attraction Blueprint and Soulmate Manifesto. Both are bedrock in my system.
Not sure how long it’ll be available like this, so go take advantage now.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
P.S. I also just launched my Soulmate Attraction Partnership group coaching program. Getting my personal help to attract Mr. Right is now vastly more affordable.
To see you qualify, apply for a Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session with me. You’ll walk away with all the clarity listed on that page — even if we clarify that the group program isn’t right for you.
A funny thing often happens when I ask women to describe their dream wedding…
Their eyebrows shoot skyward into their hairlines.
Their eyes light up.
Their hands flair outward to start describing their ornately elegant dress, as if they were wearing it.
Then, they flow into describing where the wedding would be, how the whole place would be decorated and who’d be there.
Women are incredible with detail, especially when there’s so much emotion underneath.
Yet there’s something curious missing from the dream invisibly playing out.
Can you guess what it is?
Hint: It happens to be the reason you’re having the wedding in the first place.
Well, not “it.”
More like “he.” I’m talking about the dream guy you’re marrying!
No, I’m not saying you can see his face clearly and you’ll meet a guy who looks exactly like that. We both know real life rarely works that way.
Yet how much have you clarified what’s most important about your Mr. Right?… Your must-haves and deal-breakers.
Yes, daydreaming about the stationary for your wedding invitations may seem like more fun at first.
But why?
Usually because there’s a LOT more fear about spec’ing out Mr. Right and being disappointed. You won’t have that fear about stationary.
After all, what happened in previous relationships when you weren’t clear about what you required?
Exactly.
That’s why I’m gifting you today with the whole first module from an upcoming paid product, walking you through what you need to know about your Mr. Right and how to clarify it.
This is exactly the process I took myself to meet my beautiful sweet wife, Nesit. After two failed marriages, I was determined to create and follow a simple (and yes, even fun) process that just plain worked.
Of course, it’s also the process my clients all go through — one of whom met her match in only four months after struggling to even find dates.
Three wishes. Anything you want. Just rub the lamp.
No wonder the Aladdin’s magic lamp fable lives on.
Of course, real life isn’t that easy. But it’s also not as hard as people make it. And you’re NEVER limited to three measly wishes when you follow these three simple steps…
(Watch the video above!)
Go claim your Mr. Right and anything else you want.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
P.S. Have a question about this video or any other question? Then come ask in our Facebook group. I’m in there daily and look forward to meeting you.
Have you seen any of the “Where’s Waldo?” books for kids?
On each page, there’s a drawing of some super-crowded scene. There’s so much going on and so many people doing it. Almost makes your eyes cross.
Amidst that chaos, you’ve got to find Waldo — a geeky-looking pale guy wearing a red-and-white beanie.
Doesn’t seem that hard, right?
You know what the guy looks like going in (he’s on the book cover).
So the whole chase is fun at frst. You’re on a mission to find a familiar face.
Yet you can strain your eyes for several minutes looking for him.
When fun finally turns into frustration, you may want to give up.
Just like in your quest to find Mr. Right (a.k.a. “The One”).
Except this time you don’t even know what he looks like.
And you’re searching among 3+ billion adult men across planet Earth.
Thankfully, you *do* have Law of Attraction on your side. But most of us still aren’t clear about what we want, and we’ve got all sorts of emotional blocks to allowing it in.
The clear evidence? Attracting man after man with the same issues.
After awhile, women start believing all men are like that, so they just start “training” the guy they’re with into compliance.
Which only makes your life (and his) worse.
What’s been your experience with this?
Reply and share. I read every message and promise to reply.
A giggly bubbly teen (or maybe pre-teen) girl gushes over a boy named Ryan.
You know how girls at that age can be.
The hormones are starting to surge and they go “boy crazy.”
If they get together with the cute boy, maybe they they text other smoochie-face emoticons.
Or they steal kisses at recess or walking between classes.
Or they scoot behind the baseball backstop for a hands-everywhere romantic rendezvous.
That’s fine for teenagers exploring.
It’s even fine for adults exploring, whether you’re “up in da club” or back at your place for a night cap.
But if you tell me you want The One (the reason you’re on this list), then seeking out “the spark” first just plain WON’T work.
No way. No how. Nothin’ doin’.
The adult version is worse. Because once you do the Dance with No Pants (*ahem* you know what I’m talking about), it’s nearly impossible to think straight.
The oxytocin spike in your body literally takes WEEKS to wear off. It’s called the “bonding hormone” for a reason. It makes women feel clingy to the guy who, umm, spiked it.
So am I saying to forget the Chemistry?
No, not at all.
You *can* have the sizzling Chemistry. My wife and I sure do.
You just have to keep it simmering on the backburner for awhile — even if you’re scared of losing the guy.
Because The One won’t leave you for wanting to pace things. He’ll enjoy exploring all the ways you’re a good fit for him.
Once you’re sure you feel a natural, consistent energetic Connection, you make sure you share Compatibility on your must-haves and deal-breakers.
Common outlooks on life, like your spiritual views, timelines for marriage, whether to have kids and how many, whether you’d stay home with the kids until they’re a certain age, etc.
Your relationship is sunk without Connection and Compatibility, so what’s the point of igniting a spark into Chemistry too soon?
Of course, we all make mistakes. What challenges have you had with this in your dating?
Reply back to share. I read every message and promise to reply back.
