by Milan Botica | Nov 8, 2016 | Emails
There’s a new dating app with a similar name. It matches you with men based on astrology.
Add that app to the dozens (hundreds?) of others already out there.
There’s one that shows who you’ve been near recently. Crossing paths is tres romantic, no?
There’s another that matches you based on friends of friends on Facebook.
Still another doesn’t allow men to even initiate contact. Like a Sadie Hawkins dance, the ladies get to do the asking.
Then there’s the whole universe of dating sites online.
So there’s no shortage of ways to connect with men. You can connect with thousands right from your smartphone.
Yet countless women still ask me “Where are all the good men?” and “How do I meet men?”
What’s really going on here?
Simple. The real struggle women have is sorting out who’s worth their energy / emotion and who’s not.
Which starts with clarifying what traits are truly good for you in a man.
That’s where I come in. Because the normal dating process can drag for for literally decades, right? How willing are you to plod along like you have been?
If you want results with men you can see and feel starting in days at no cost, go here.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Nov 5, 2016 | Emails
Can you guess?
Take just a couple of moments.
So why did the duck cross the road?
Because she didn’t want to be chicken!
A joke befitting a 4-year-old, but it’s too true in dating, relating and mating.
We are where we are because we’re afraid to take another step. We’re terrfied of life mowing us down if we dare cross the road.
No doubt you’ve been hurt before. We all have, some more than others.
Me? I could barely eat or function after my first wife walked out on her birthday in 1994. My body withered nearly 15 pounds in the first week, my heart shriveling like a raisin left in the sun.
So believe me, I could talk for hours about past traumas. But the point is I eventually did decide to get up and cross the road.
Of course, I’m *not* telling you to just go take a bunch of action. With 3+ billion men on the planet, lots of action toward an unclear Mr. Right can land you right back in frustrating loneliness.
Lucky for you, you don’t have to clarify everything or cross alone. That’s what my new group program is designed to help you do, more affordably than ever (with a whole raft of bonuses for our charter members).
But it’s not right for everyone.
To see if it’s your ticket across the road, go here to apply for a Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session.
Worst case, you’ll walk away with priceless clarity to start stepping to Mr. Right on your own.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Nov 3, 2016 | Emails
Brrrr. The weather’s getting nippier. The holidays are almost here.
(Don’t laugh. Even Southern California cools off this time of year.)
How are you feeling about your 2016?
Celebrate your wins. And take stock of what you still want, including Mr. Right.
As motivation to have him in your life this time next year, what would you actually be doing with him?
Sitting down to Thanksgiving dinner with your family or his?
Sipping eggnog by the fireplace?
Going to the mall together treasure-hunting presents for your special somebodies?
Get super clear. And use all five senses to feel the feelings of your relationship.
Action is still required, of course.
And there are all sorts of trip-ups as you get up to speed.
One of the biggest is dismissing men too soon.
“Oh yuck, he has a carrot bit between his teeth.”
Yeah, well so do you sometimes.
“His feet smelled when he took off his shoes after our date.”
And yours don’t sometimes?
I’m obviously taking examples out of context, and you may not even have these particular pet peeves.
So take the lesson here instead. Don’t dismiss men the first time you get triggered.
Pause for the cause. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Give him some time to show you who he really is.
You want that too, right?
How many happy long-term marriages would’ve never been if either partner bailed within the first few dates?
(In case you’re wondering, my incredible wife and I both triggered each other up, down and sideways early on, yet we sensed a deep connection beneath the surface emotional chaos.)
If you want my help stepping into this long-term mindset and attract The One who shares your same juicy vision, go here to apply.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Nov 1, 2016 | Emails
The worldwide women’s empowerment movement is AWESOME. Yet it’s also misleading women in a huge way.
The “You can have it all” message might bond the sisterhood, yet it doesn’t make any sense.
When you have limited time and energy, how can you have it all?
Of course, that depends on how you define “all.” From a spiritual perspective, you’re part of it all, so you can experience yourself as the All.
That said, after coaching literally 100s of women, that’s almost never how the message gets interpreted. So the message’s vagueness does more harm than good.
Especially when you’re looking for Mr. Right.
You’ve got to get clear about what you’re really willing to invest in the process.
Think on it for a minute.
You get up in the morning. You run through your routine. You dash off to work where you spend most of your time and energy. You get off at 5 or 6pm — or later?
How much time does that leave you before bed?
And how much of that time do you need for going to the gym, cooking, decompressing alone, prepping for the next day, etc?
Even when factoring in the weekends, you probably don’t have all the time you want to find Mr. Right.
Yet what about the family you want to start with him and the life you’ve been dreaming of all these years?
That awaits you — sooner than later if you go about it the efficient way.
That’s the way I show my clients. Which you can now access more affordably than ever with the launch of my group coaching program.
It’s not for everyone though, so go here only if you’re truly committed to having Mr. Right in your life ASAP.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Oct 29, 2016 | Emails
You’ve got the energy right if you want Mr. Right.
To illustrate what I mean, here’s a quick example…
Some years ago, after a personal growth event I helped put on, I went to dinner with two of the key women behind the event.
Both were highly capable, whip-smart women who could rival any guy any day.
Yet when it came time to order, they asked me to decide on the food. They’d been making decisions all weekend, so they considered it a privilege to let me handle the dinner choices.
I got to feel in-service to these women — an extra honor because they were obviously capable of handling their own needs.
That’s what makes a great relationship, too.
You’re a modern woman. You’re out working, climbing your career ladder as high as you want to go and taking care of yourself.
We men do get that. And hat’s off to you!
Yet we still want the honor of helping you.
It’s like a dance. We want to lead in some ways, and you can lead in others.
Both partners taking charge to lead (the yang energy) at the same time just gets you bruised toes and a bitter heart — a big turn-off to potential future partners.
Worse still, when you’re leading in ways you want a man to, you’ll attract the wrong men AND bring out a version of even Mr. Right you don’t want.
Did you catch that?
It’s one of the biggest success secrets of happily-married couples.
They’ve sorted out who will lead when to feel in union (a.k.a. “yoga”).
For example, even though I love to cook, my sweet wifey often makes dinner while I work. We’re leading and being led in different ways, so we keep enjoying the dance day after day.
Yes, it takes practice. And there are a bunch of nuances to it.
To help you master the nuances and attract a man with just the right energy blend, you now have a chance at more affordable coaching than ever with me.
That’s because I’ve launched my group-based Soulmate Attraction Partnership with a bunch of juicy bonuses (including a couple of *years* of support for FREE).
If that sounds intriguing, first apply for a no-cost Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session with me.
You’ll walk way with all sorts of clarity and a new lightness. You may also get an invitation into the group program at the end if your situation is right for it. The program isn’t for everyone, after all.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Oct 27, 2016 | Emails
Jess is lonely. “Time to see an astrologer,” she thinks.
Jess desperately wants to meet Mr. Right, get married and have three or four kids.
She’s already done her rounds on the dating scene to no avail. Coffee dates from dating site men, blind dates through friends and even random connections at get-togethers.
No Mr. Right in sight.
So Jess cuts to the chase when she sits down with the astrologer. “What do you see in my stars??”
The astrologer, a wise-looking gray-bearded man, pauses for a moment to breathe deeply before speaking.
“For the first 36 years of your life, you will be fraught with loneliness.”
“Okay! Well, I’m 35 now, so what happens after 36?”
The astrologer pauses again, then locks eyes with Jess.
“You’ll get used to it.”
Not exactly what our gal wanted to hear!
But the astrologer still pointed out an important lesson:
You can control how you feel, regardless of what you have or don’t have.
Easier said than done if you don’t have food, but not having Mr. Right isn’t the same as starving.
The happier you become, the more magnetic you become to Mr. Right.
That’s been a consistent theme among my clients. For example, I remember one woman who initially came for help just feeling happier. She said “I feel broken. Help fix me.”
Almost immediately, she gushed that she also wanted to meet a man.
Guess what? She met a great guy a few months into our unknotting her issues.
Same for me. That’s how I ultimately attracted in my darling wife, Nesit.
You can do it, too.
Notice when you’re not happy and reflect on why. You’ll find which beliefs are holding back your happiness.
For attracting your Mr. Right, all my clients start with the Soulmate Attraction Blueprint and Soulmate Manifesto. Both are bedrock in my system.
That’s why I’m giving you the whole first module of my paid product free, to guide you through them on video.
Not sure how long it’ll be available like this, so go take advantage now.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
P.S. I also just launched my Soulmate Attraction Partnership group coaching program. Getting my personal help to attract Mr. Right is now vastly more affordable.
To see you qualify, apply for a Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session with me. You’ll walk away with all the clarity listed on that page — even if we clarify that the group program isn’t right for you.
