by Milan Botica | Dec 24, 2016 | Emails
With all the gift shopping and other to-do’s on your list, remember the most important one:
Letting yourself be happy.
You deserve that. It’s your birthright.
You’ll never get everything on your list done. There’s always more. But you can be happy in a few minutes even if you’re miserable now.
And what better time to give yourself that gift than a holiday weekend in the last week of 2016?
So spend time with friends and family + some time within yourself. (The happier you are by yourself the faster you’ll magnetize Mr. Right to you!)
I’m happy you came into my life. It’s an honor to help you call in your dream guy.
Speaking of which, I’ll be back with another weekly content video for you tomorrow.
Just wanted to share some love today. 🙂
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Dec 20, 2016 | Emails
I love a good story of women finding Mr. Right — especially with online dating, which many of us are so skeptical of.
One gal, Amy, found her hubby through a dating app. Her story sounds semi-normal at first glance, yet she got a CRUCIAL part right many women don’t…
Amy dated for years. That part is easy to relate to. She was depressed to come up empty after so long, with countless friends reminding along the way how there “still plenty of fish in the sea.”
Yeah… right. She just wanted one (THE One), yet he didn’t seem to exist.
So she did something many women aren’t willing to consciously do… She gave up.
She went to work every day, came home and cooked for herself. Sometimes she went out with friends to laugh and talk for a change.
Months went by. She got antsy. The mental portrait of husband and kids tugged at her night and day.
Amy installed some dating apps on her phone to explore. Not a big deal to swipe on some profiles in the evenings before bed, right?
Swiping eventually led to a few text chats, but with most conversations going nowhere.
Then she finally went on some dates, with almost all prospects wilting like fresh roses in the summer sun on the first date. She only went out with a few guys more than once.
Yet one of them turned out to be her Mr. Right. How great is that?
Persistence was key. No doubt. Yet so was having a dating profile that enticed men enough to click and engage with her.
What’s the #1 part of your profile any man will look at first and linger on?
You guessed it… Your photo.
Find out the best way to pick a great dating profile photo in this (it’s not what you think) in this new blog post. (Written by my partner / Resident Tech Geek, Sunni.)
Articles offering photo tips are useful, but none of them help you know what men actually think of YOUR photos. That’s why I’m sharing about a new service that gets you FREE, anonymous instant impressions on your dating profile photo(s) from plenty of real men in your target age range.
No, it’s NOT another ‘Hot or Not.’ Nothing like it. And it’s way better than asking your guy friends for feedback.
Come see why this free service is worth your time and how to use it today in our new blog post.
by Milan Botica | Dec 17, 2016 | Emails
Let’s be clear:
“He” is not me.
My sweet wife, Nesit, is scrumptiously real!
But a Japanese guy (pics at the end) went for a silicone doll after an unsatisfying marriage.
You might guess how the “relationship” started. The 3-letter word starts with “S”… and ends with “X.”
Who says there aren’t any quality men left? lol
Joking aside, let’s look at this in a heart-centered human way.
Like most of us, he just wanted to feel love and companionship. And this was the way that worked for him.
He could’ve probably found that with a real woman if he worked with a coach like me, but so be it.
The same could be said of most women…
They’re filling “the void” with other ways to feel love and companionship.
Not usually silicone dolls (no judgment here), yet if what they’re doing works, great.
How about you? You wouldn’t be on this list if you found a satisfying alternative to being with The One, would you?
Getting clear on exactly what you want in him and with him is the tricky part.
That’s where Module 1 of my How to Attract Your Soulmate in Your Spare Time course comes in mighty handy. I guide you to clarity step by step with videos and worksheets.
This is the same process that got my first client her Mr. Right in only 4 months.
Best yet, you can get it free here for now.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
P.S. Here’s the article with pics about the Japanese guy and his silicone girlfriend.
by Milan Botica | Dec 15, 2016 | Emails
That’s what some women call the popular dating site, OkCupid lol.
Lots of questionable men on there, apparently.
Okay… Weirdos. Pervs. Jerks. The whole moldy trail mix.
Hence the “OkStupid.”
But it’s not just that site.
Or even dating sites in general.
That’s the WORLD.
The same world of ~7 billion people also has countless great guys in it.
And at least one of them is “The One” for you. You believe that, don’t you?
So focus on that. You know from the Law of Attraction that you get what you focus on and feel intensely. You get what you filter for.
Of course, the challenge is cleaning up your vibration from all the hurts still active because you’re scared they’ll happen again.
Totally understandable. You’re scared like anybody would be when they don’t understand certain fundamentals.
That’s what I’m here to give you about men, so you can finally have Mr. Right. So if you’re ready to stop settling for being alone or the weirdos and jerks out there, then do yourself a favor…
Go here now to apply for a no-cost Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session with me.
One client, Laura, went from saying “I feel broken” in our first session to being with “a fabulous relationship” (her words) within a few months. I want that for you, too.
Don’t you?
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
P.S. If you apply by TOMORROW (Friday) night, December 16 and are accepted, you’ll also get a Dynamic Date Planner Session with me.
That’s where we put our minds together to plan any date in advance, to filter our Mr. Wrongs fast and know if you’re spending your time with a potential Mr. Right.
Go on. Apply now.
by Milan Botica | Dec 13, 2016 | Emails
Sad news for a popular real estate reality show couple here in Southern California.
They’re Splitsville, or at least announced plans to be.
Yes, Christina and Tarek of the popular Flip or Flop tv show on HGTV made waves with that news yesterday.
Some weren’t surprised, considering police were called to their house back on May 23 for “a possibly suicidal man with a gun.”
Maybe you’re thinking I’m going to say, “See, this is what can happen from working together all day every day,” as I talked about before. (I had an import-export business in a previous marriage, so I know!)
But nope.
This email is actually about that assumption.
Assumptions are so dangerous. As the ever-cheeky Mark Twain put it:
“It ain’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so.”
In other words, assumptions.
Assumptions about men can keep you lonely and frustrated for a long time, maybe even a lifetime.
Just like the wonderful gal well into her 30’s who struggled with men her whole life until she came to me. And she met her Mr. Right 4 months later!
I can’t guarantee results like hers because everyone is different, but if you want my no-cost help to DRASTICALLY accelerate your time to attract Mr. Right, go here to apply.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
P.S. If you apply by Friday night, December 16 and are accepted, you’ll also get a Dynamic Date Planner Session with me.
That’s where we put our minds together to plan any date in advance, to filter our Mr. Wrongs fast and know if you’re spending your time with a potential Mr. Right.
Go on. Apply now.
by Milan Botica | Dec 10, 2016 | Emails
Nothing smells so sweet
Except for you!
See, I wrote you a poem.
Some women thinks that’s all awww-love-dovey romantic.
Other women thinks it’s lame. “Just another game to get in my pants!”
If you’ve got even a little of that last gal in you, please… for your sake… exorcise her.
It’s one thing to be discerning about a man’s intentions and how you like to be romanced.
It’s something else to be cynical.
Cynicism usually spews out of a deep, festering wound. Men hurt you in the past, so it’s only natural to be wounded. But it’s not natural to *stay* wounded.
To start healing, reflect on the good men in your life. The ones who greet you with a smile, keep their promises and help you feel better after being with them.
Even if you have no romantic interest in them whatsoever. They can still help you to heal, so you’re ready to step back into romance.
Or, if you want to heal FAR faster and attract Mr. Right as a natural result, maybe we should talk.
More specifically, apply for a free Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session to clarify your #1 block to attracting the right guy and an action plan to get him.
If you apply by Friday night, December 16 and are accepted, you’ll also get a Dynamic Date Planner Session with me.
That’s where we put our minds together to plan any date in advance, to filter our Mr. Wrongs fast and know if you’re spending your time with a potential Mr. Right.
Go on. Apply now.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
