[Video] How to attract a good man
Want to know how to attract a good man?
It starts with your Soulmate Attraction Blueprint, but that’s part of only one of the three pillars I want to share with you today…
(Watch the video above!)
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
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Video Transcript
Hi, and welcome, it’s Milan with Tuning Into the One. The place and space where you can find, attract, and build true lasting love, and today, the best way to attract a really good man into your life today, tomorrow, in the near future. How do you do it? What are the different pieces of that particular puzzle? Well, the best way to attract a really good man is to follow a very simple and basic recipe. It’s only got three components. The tools, the environment, and the energy. The tools are what you use in terms of getting yourself ready, in terms of attraction from the standpoint of going out there and doing those things that will let the man know you’re interested. And to find the right man in the right way in the right way in the right place at the right time, especially these days, why? Well because there’s so much on the digital dating front, and what happens is we really experience what I would call different degrees of separation when it comes down to digital dating. The best example I have is Nokia, which started in Finland, and the Finns were very challenged to speak to each other one on one when it came down to personal conversations. But something amazing happened when the introduction of cell phones happened. All the sudden, they started interacting like crazy because this degree of separation where they didn’t have to be face-to-face in front of each other, talking to each other, seemed to open up a whole new world of communication. So digital dating or getting out there and dating online is amazing because the opportunities are truly endless. The downside is that you don’t have that same degree of intimacy, that same degree of personability. You have a degree of separation with online dating. So you have tremendous opportunity, lots of different places and spaces to look. The difference is you really want to think about what are the tools you’re using to find and attract that good man into your life. What’s the environment like, and the third piece is the energy, and that’s what you bring to the equation as well as what you’re attracting in from the standpoint of the other side. So the best way to attract a really good man, a ideal dream partner, soulmate, is to think in terms of what are the tools I’m using, what’s the environment I find myself in, and what is the energy that I’m bringing to the equation? So know what you want in your ideal dream soulmate and partner, and the best way to do this is to do our Soulmate Attraction Blueprint where you find out the wants, the don’t wants, the likes, the dislikes, the deal-breakers and the must-haves. What you want and what you want in a partner. Then do the Soulmate Manifesto Magnetization exercise and this has to do with the energy. So the first part is really the tools, the Soulmate Attraction Blueprint and then the Soulmate Manifesto Magnetization and exercise is the tool that you use to ramp up your energy to be able to do it deliberately. In other words, when you look at your tools, what are you using? Are you just using online tools? Are you actually using physical tools in terms of environment, and that would be clubs, places where you can have hobbies or interests expressed, community centers for activities, organizations where you share the same values, beliefs, or your interests. So Sierra club, biking club, hiking club, walking club. All kinds of different places where you have clubs, organizations, and activity centers where you can find different environments in which to put yourself in aside from where you go everyday. The grocery store, the gym. Those are also great places to meet wonderful people. The difference is you wanna have those tools, the Soulmate Attraction Blueprint and the Soulmate Manifesto Magnetization exercise that’ll allow you to really build up that energy, and when it comes down to your energy, what kind of a person are you emotionally, physically, and energetically? Are you a happy person, are you a fun person? Are you a funny person, are you shy? Are you an animal person? Are you looking for someone to take care of you, or are you afraid of being hurt or having someone break your heart? Are you a thrill-seeker looking to have your bucket list happen like yesterday, tomorrow, the next day, this year? Next year, we’re coming up on 2017. We’re winding down 2016, so it’s important. The best way to attract a really good man has three pieces. What are the tools you’re using to attract and to use, to find that platform and that place? What’s the environment you find yourself into? Is it the online environment, is it digital, is it real? Are you looking for places in your local community where you can actually find common values, common beliefs, common interests, common hobbies? And are you putting out a certain level of energy that’s deliberate? Or are you putting out energy that might be a little bit desperate? Or are you putting out an energy that’s just disinterested and you just, you know, you’re kinda like, “Hey, I’m done with this. “I’m just tired, I’m burned out. “Too many relationship wars, too many “battles, too many scars.” Whatever your situation is, three things you wanna look at to attract a really good man into your life. What are the tools your using, both online and in real life? We here at Tuning Into the One highly recommend and very, very, very much believe that what’s going to work for tuning into that one is the Soulmate Attraction Blueprint as your basis of what you’re looking for, what you want, why you want it, and what that looks like, and then the Soulmate Manifesto Magnetization exercise, which will help you to powerfully work on your energy from the inside out to attract that very thing you want. And then of course, what are you doing with your environment along with those tools that you got going for you? Are you looking in the right places? When you’re online, are you filtering? Are you putting statements like I don’t wanna waste my time, I don’t wanna waste your time? I’m looking for a long time, exclusive, monogamous relationship full of love, heartfelt connection and then use the Soulmate Attraction Blueprint to start asking the right questions, reading into the answers and making sure you’re attracting the right type of person into your life. So until the next time, this is Milan saying join us in our private little group. The link is right here on the video, right below it, or you can join us on Facebook as well, and check us out on tuningintotheone.com. Until the next time, this is Milan wishing you an amazing dating experience and relationship mastery. Bye for now.
Funny and fake dating profiles
“Married. Couple of kids. Looking for some side action. Just kidding. Single. 3 tamagotchis. Looking for someone to bring to family events so they’ll stop thinking something’s wrong with me.”
Great catch right there lol.
This from a guy dressed up as a taco with a chicken head on Tinder.
Some people are out to be funny and obviously fake.
Others are glossing over their real selves so much they become someone else entirely online.
Chances are you’ve met a man or two like this.
Waste. of. Time.
Challenge is, most of the good honest men aren’t going to be right for you either. So you have to know how to know FAST, so you can move on.
That’s my specialty. If you want my FREE help going from either zero dates or dating zeroes to your “hero” (The One), apply here.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
DON’T talk to men to call in The One?
Quick story from Finland…
The Finns are known for hardly talking to each other.
With frigid weather and only 17 Finns per square kilometer, they evolved to be rather skittish face to face.
Small wonder that Matti Makkonen, the “father of SMS (texting),” was a Finn.
The Finns embraced texting because of the comfort zone it gave them to chat.
Texting really exploded when Nokia (a Finnish company!) made texting easy on its phones.
So then you had Finns texting like crazy on Finnish phones.
Does this remind you at all of what dating sites and apps do for us today?
Striking up a conversation with someone you don’t know can feel awkward in person.
It can be a little awkward online too, but at least you have the physical separation. And time separation, since you don’t have to reply back immediately.
So talk to men in a way that’s comfortable enough for you.
As you relax into the process, maybe you’ll also start chatting up men in person.
Once you’re talking to a guy, whether online or live in the flesh, that’s when you get to see if he’s really what you’re after.
Of course, that means you have to be clear about what you want and what you don’t want first.
Want me to guide you step by step to that clarity with videos and worksheets? Go here.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
Interviewing for The One
Sweaty palms. Shallow breaths. Acid churning in your stomach.
If you’ve been on an interview for a job you *really* wanted before, you know what I’m talking about.
Been there myself.
You’re imagining how landing this job will change your life — the new apartment you can upgrade to, the vacation you can finally go on…
And how you’ll be right back to where you are AGAIN if it doesn’t work out.
Same with dating.
Women often tell me they feel huge pressure on dates. To look a certain way, to not sound needy so the guy gets scared off, etc.
But men feel the pressure, too.
We don’t want to look too needy, not “alpha” enough to stand out from the pack (we assume women can get all the dates they want), etc.
Awkward.
The pressure drives some women to drill the already-nervous guy sitting across the table with interview questions, to see if he’s got the right stuff. (After all, you’ve wasted time on enough men already, right?)
Nothing wrong in asking questions.
You’ve just got to do it in a conversational enough way.
You’ve also got to ask questions that really matter.
Which requires clearly knowing your wants, don’t-wants, must-haves and deal-breakers. (Hint: Many women — and men — think they do but don’t really. That’s come up with countless women in coaching sessions.)
So, if you’re serious about repelling Mr. Wrongs and attracting Mr. Right ASAP, then make sure you grab the FREE first module of my How to Attract Your Soulmate in Your Spare Time course.
You get the worksheets and videos with me to walk you through what you really want, all in one place for easy reference.
Yes, this is the same process that attracted Mr. Right for one of my clients in only 4 months. Go take advantage while you can.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
Priceless ‘Black Saturday’ soulmate freebie
Black Friday was yesterday, but let me guess…
Your inbox is still piling high with discount offers for everything from clothes to coffee makers, right?
All stuff you’ll get a spike of pleasure out of for a few minutes or hours. (Maybe a few days if you’re lucky.)
We all do it. It’s human nature.
Being totally honest, most of us do that in relationships, too. Dating someone new is a thrill… until it’s not.
You didn’t come to me to help you find the *next* guy to romp around with before the fun fizzles.
You’re reading this because you want The One you can share your life with, to grow with and closer to so the honeymoon never ends.
Calling him into your life starts with clarity. And there’s no better all-in-one, step-by-step clarity tool than my Soulmate Attraction Blueprint process.
That’s why I’m GIVING you the whole first module of my paid How to Attract Your Soulmate in Your Spare Time training for FREE. You get the worksheets and videos with me to turbo-sift out what you really want, all in one place for easy reference.
You also get the Soulmate Manifesto process, which multiplies your attraction factor when you do it how I’ll show you.
Remember, these are the same processes that attracted Mr. Right for one of my clients in only 4 months. I’d love to hear a success story like that from you!
So go sign up for your FREE training here before it’s too late.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
Thankful for you (and your future Mr. Right)
It’s Thanksgiving here in the U.S. — the perfect time to tell you how thankful I am for YOU.
Your courage to keep bounding forward on your quest for Mr. Right is inspiring. And I’m honored to help you in your journey, break-downs and all.
Sooo, since you know appreciation attracts what you want that much faster, what are you thankful for today?
Reply back and share. It’d be great to hear from you and keep cheering you on.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan