by Milan Botica | Dec 3, 2016 | Emails
“Married. Couple of kids. Looking for some side action. Just kidding. Single. 3 tamagotchis. Looking for someone to bring to family events so they’ll stop thinking something’s wrong with me.”
Great catch right there lol.
This from a guy dressed up as a taco with a chicken head on Tinder.
Some people are out to be funny and obviously fake.
Others are glossing over their real selves so much they become someone else entirely online.
Chances are you’ve met a man or two like this.
Waste. of. Time.
Challenge is, most of the good honest men aren’t going to be right for you either. So you have to know how to know FAST, so you can move on.
That’s my specialty. If you want my FREE help going from either zero dates or dating zeroes to your “hero” (The One), apply here.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Dec 1, 2016 | Emails
Quick story from Finland…
The Finns are known for hardly talking to each other.
With frigid weather and only 17 Finns per square kilometer, they evolved to be rather skittish face to face.
Small wonder that Matti Makkonen, the “father of SMS (texting),” was a Finn.
The Finns embraced texting because of the comfort zone it gave them to chat.
Texting really exploded when Nokia (a Finnish company!) made texting easy on its phones.
So then you had Finns texting like crazy on Finnish phones.
Does this remind you at all of what dating sites and apps do for us today?
Striking up a conversation with someone you don’t know can feel awkward in person.
It can be a little awkward online too, but at least you have the physical separation. And time separation, since you don’t have to reply back immediately.
So talk to men in a way that’s comfortable enough for you.
As you relax into the process, maybe you’ll also start chatting up men in person.
Once you’re talking to a guy, whether online or live in the flesh, that’s when you get to see if he’s really what you’re after.
Of course, that means you have to be clear about what you want and what you don’t want first.
Want me to guide you step by step to that clarity with videos and worksheets? Go here.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Nov 29, 2016 | Emails
Sweaty palms. Shallow breaths. Acid churning in your stomach.
If you’ve been on an interview for a job you *really* wanted before, you know what I’m talking about.
Been there myself.
You’re imagining how landing this job will change your life — the new apartment you can upgrade to, the vacation you can finally go on…
And how you’ll be right back to where you are AGAIN if it doesn’t work out.
Same with dating.
Women often tell me they feel huge pressure on dates. To look a certain way, to not sound needy so the guy gets scared off, etc.
But men feel the pressure, too.
We don’t want to look too needy, not “alpha” enough to stand out from the pack (we assume women can get all the dates they want), etc.
Awkward.
The pressure drives some women to drill the already-nervous guy sitting across the table with interview questions, to see if he’s got the right stuff. (After all, you’ve wasted time on enough men already, right?)
Nothing wrong in asking questions.
You’ve just got to do it in a conversational enough way.
You’ve also got to ask questions that really matter.
Which requires clearly knowing your wants, don’t-wants, must-haves and deal-breakers. (Hint: Many women — and men — think they do but don’t really. That’s come up with countless women in coaching sessions.)
So, if you’re serious about repelling Mr. Wrongs and attracting Mr. Right ASAP, then make sure you grab the FREE first module of my How to Attract Your Soulmate in Your Spare Time course.
You get the worksheets and videos with me to walk you through what you really want, all in one place for easy reference.
Yes, this is the same process that attracted Mr. Right for one of my clients in only 4 months. Go take advantage while you can.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Nov 26, 2016 | Emails
Black Friday was yesterday, but let me guess…
Your inbox is still piling high with discount offers for everything from clothes to coffee makers, right?
All stuff you’ll get a spike of pleasure out of for a few minutes or hours. (Maybe a few days if you’re lucky.)
We all do it. It’s human nature.
Being totally honest, most of us do that in relationships, too. Dating someone new is a thrill… until it’s not.
You didn’t come to me to help you find the *next* guy to romp around with before the fun fizzles.
You’re reading this because you want The One you can share your life with, to grow with and closer to so the honeymoon never ends.
Calling him into your life starts with clarity. And there’s no better all-in-one, step-by-step clarity tool than my Soulmate Attraction Blueprint process.
That’s why I’m GIVING you the whole first module of my paid How to Attract Your Soulmate in Your Spare Time training for FREE. You get the worksheets and videos with me to turbo-sift out what you really want, all in one place for easy reference.
You also get the Soulmate Manifesto process, which multiplies your attraction factor when you do it how I’ll show you.
Remember, these are the same processes that attracted Mr. Right for one of my clients in only 4 months. I’d love to hear a success story like that from you!
So go sign up for your FREE training here before it’s too late.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Nov 24, 2016 | Emails
It’s Thanksgiving here in the U.S. — the perfect time to tell you how thankful I am for YOU.
Your courage to keep bounding forward on your quest for Mr. Right is inspiring. And I’m honored to help you in your journey, break-downs and all.
Sooo, since you know appreciation attracts what you want that much faster, what are you thankful for today?
Reply back and share. It’d be great to hear from you and keep cheering you on.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
