by Milan Botica | Dec 8, 2016 | Emails
That’s what the Japanese are doing. In droves.
Friends are getting married to friends over there because they’re struggling to find someone suitable.
Proof: A government survey found that 69% of Japanese men and 59% of Japanese women don’t have a romantic partner.
Maybe some good will come out of it.
At least the people are friends, and Japan is facing a massively shrinking population if more people don’t start having kids. (In the last 5 years, only ~8.4 kids were born from every 1,000 people!)
Japan’s suicide rate is also roughly 60% higher than the global average. They could use some companionship just to get through life.
Besides, the Japanese aren’t known for marrying for love anyway. A suitable partner is usually much more practical for them.
Of course, Western women usually feel better with companionship and marriage also serves their practical needs.
So why not just grab your best guy friend and marry him?
Well, you could.
But aren’t you here because you want your heart to flutter when you hug your Mr. Right?
Maybe the late comedian Robin Williams said it best:
“I used to think the worst thing in life is to end up all alone. … The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone.”
When you’re looking to marry for love, being with anyone but The One can make you feel lonelier than ever.
Don’t let that happen to you.
Apply for no-cost personal help from yours truly to attract him in.
When you apply by next Friday (Dec 16) night and if you’re accepted, you’ll also get a free Dynamic Date Planner session with me.
That’s where we put our minds together to plan any date in advance, to filter our Mr. Wrongs fast and know if you’re spending your time with a potential Mr. Right.
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To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Dec 6, 2016 | Emails
That’s what the National Marriage Project calls an ironic research finding about unhappiness in marriages.
They’re referring to Las Vegas’ unofficial motto:
“What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas.”
Catchy, but incredibly dumb.
Even if nobody else finds out what we do in Vegas, *we* still know, right?
The guilt, the shame, the hiding… it all hurts us later.
You can’t build a thick brick wall around your heart and have deep, intimate connection.
Anyway, the Vegas fallacy isn’t just about what we regret from the past…
The National Marriage Project’s research found that people with more previous relationship experience were — on average — unhappier in their marriages.
The causes? They weren’t quite so clear, but they guessed that having more previous partners led to more comparisons between then and now.
The people also had more experience ending relationships, so they might’ve been thinking about ending this relationship, too. Just the thought can make someone feel imprisoned.
So there’s another reason, based on research, why just dating lots of men won’t directly lead you to Mr. Right.
The self-reflection is the most important factor.
Take me, for example. I was married twice before meeting my beautiful sweet Nesit. (And she was, too!)
If we both didn’t do our inner work to heal our wounds and evolve as people, we may have never met.
I want you to meet your Mr. Right ASAP. So let me make the self-reflection part easy, by gifting you the whole first module of my How to Attract Your Soulmate in Your Spare Time course.
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To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Dec 3, 2016 | Emails
“Married. Couple of kids. Looking for some side action. Just kidding. Single. 3 tamagotchis. Looking for someone to bring to family events so they’ll stop thinking something’s wrong with me.”
Great catch right there lol.
This from a guy dressed up as a taco with a chicken head on Tinder.
Some people are out to be funny and obviously fake.
Others are glossing over their real selves so much they become someone else entirely online.
Chances are you’ve met a man or two like this.
Waste. of. Time.
Challenge is, most of the good honest men aren’t going to be right for you either. So you have to know how to know FAST, so you can move on.
That’s my specialty. If you want my FREE help going from either zero dates or dating zeroes to your “hero” (The One), apply here.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Dec 1, 2016 | Emails
Quick story from Finland…
The Finns are known for hardly talking to each other.
With frigid weather and only 17 Finns per square kilometer, they evolved to be rather skittish face to face.
Small wonder that Matti Makkonen, the “father of SMS (texting),” was a Finn.
The Finns embraced texting because of the comfort zone it gave them to chat.
Texting really exploded when Nokia (a Finnish company!) made texting easy on its phones.
So then you had Finns texting like crazy on Finnish phones.
Does this remind you at all of what dating sites and apps do for us today?
Striking up a conversation with someone you don’t know can feel awkward in person.
It can be a little awkward online too, but at least you have the physical separation. And time separation, since you don’t have to reply back immediately.
So talk to men in a way that’s comfortable enough for you.
As you relax into the process, maybe you’ll also start chatting up men in person.
Once you’re talking to a guy, whether online or live in the flesh, that’s when you get to see if he’s really what you’re after.
Of course, that means you have to be clear about what you want and what you don’t want first.
Want me to guide you step by step to that clarity with videos and worksheets? Go here.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Nov 29, 2016 | Emails
Sweaty palms. Shallow breaths. Acid churning in your stomach.
If you’ve been on an interview for a job you *really* wanted before, you know what I’m talking about.
Been there myself.
You’re imagining how landing this job will change your life — the new apartment you can upgrade to, the vacation you can finally go on…
And how you’ll be right back to where you are AGAIN if it doesn’t work out.
Same with dating.
Women often tell me they feel huge pressure on dates. To look a certain way, to not sound needy so the guy gets scared off, etc.
But men feel the pressure, too.
We don’t want to look too needy, not “alpha” enough to stand out from the pack (we assume women can get all the dates they want), etc.
Awkward.
The pressure drives some women to drill the already-nervous guy sitting across the table with interview questions, to see if he’s got the right stuff. (After all, you’ve wasted time on enough men already, right?)
Nothing wrong in asking questions.
You’ve just got to do it in a conversational enough way.
You’ve also got to ask questions that really matter.
Which requires clearly knowing your wants, don’t-wants, must-haves and deal-breakers. (Hint: Many women — and men — think they do but don’t really. That’s come up with countless women in coaching sessions.)
So, if you’re serious about repelling Mr. Wrongs and attracting Mr. Right ASAP, then make sure you grab the FREE first module of my How to Attract Your Soulmate in Your Spare Time course.
You get the worksheets and videos with me to walk you through what you really want, all in one place for easy reference.
Yes, this is the same process that attracted Mr. Right for one of my clients in only 4 months. Go take advantage while you can.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Nov 26, 2016 | Emails
Black Friday was yesterday, but let me guess…
Your inbox is still piling high with discount offers for everything from clothes to coffee makers, right?
All stuff you’ll get a spike of pleasure out of for a few minutes or hours. (Maybe a few days if you’re lucky.)
We all do it. It’s human nature.
Being totally honest, most of us do that in relationships, too. Dating someone new is a thrill… until it’s not.
You didn’t come to me to help you find the *next* guy to romp around with before the fun fizzles.
You’re reading this because you want The One you can share your life with, to grow with and closer to so the honeymoon never ends.
Calling him into your life starts with clarity. And there’s no better all-in-one, step-by-step clarity tool than my Soulmate Attraction Blueprint process.
That’s why I’m GIVING you the whole first module of my paid How to Attract Your Soulmate in Your Spare Time training for FREE. You get the worksheets and videos with me to turbo-sift out what you really want, all in one place for easy reference.
You also get the Soulmate Manifesto process, which multiplies your attraction factor when you do it how I’ll show you.
Remember, these are the same processes that attracted Mr. Right for one of my clients in only 4 months. I’d love to hear a success story like that from you!
So go sign up for your FREE training here before it’s too late.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
