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Hi and welcome, this is Milan with Tuning Into the One. Welcome and welcome back. Today, what women should look for in a dating coach. Dating, relationships and mating, partnership, marriage, that’s right. So when you’re looking for a dating coach and specifically if you’re in California as I am in the Los Angles, the greater southern California area, sometimes you feel like the dating game can be very specific to your locality and there are a lot of specificities that are unique to your particular area or region, wherever you happen to be. In California as well as specifically to the southern California marketplace, you’re dealing with nuances, where people live, access to a local geography, whatever that may be. What women should look for in a dating coach specific to their area like in California or in southern California is going to translate to other areas. So maybe you’re in LA. I know some people personally who are actually looking from California, from the Los Angeles area, from SoCal to date people internationally and that’s great but whatever the criteria here is you’re looking for three things and they all start with E. So there’s three Es. Experience, expertise and excellence. Again, that’s experience, expertise and excellence. When it comes down to experience, you want somebody who’s been in the dating pool or knows how to go after it, someone who’s been in relationships or knows how to help you find, attract and live in true lasting love with your soulmate, your dream partner. At Tuning Into the One, that’s where we focus. Find, attract and live in true lasting love. So when it comes down to experience, I’ve helped over 250 private VIP clients and I’ve helped women from all around the world to be able to work on their existing relationships and for those women that were dating zeroes or having zero dates or just weren’t in the game and wanted to get back in or they’re just going through a tough time, they’ve just ended a bad marriage or they ended a good marriage and it just didn’t finish the way they thought it would or their person who they thought was their shining knight in armor all of a sudden decided they wanted out. All of those situations have one thing in common. When you’re looking for a dating coach who can help you with the relationships and build back up to finding, attracting and living in true lasting love with your ideal dream partner, your soulmate, you want to make sure they have the experience in terms of clientele to be able to help you then you wanna make sure they also have the expertise. What are their processes, what are their techniques? Where have they honed their craft and are they using their full potential, not just certain visual techniques, not just certain processes but all of it? We’re holistic people. When it comes down to expertise for me in particular and my clientele, I am a master at understanding the male mind and how to help women read men’s signals better, read men’s signals accurately and be able to send the right response signals and messages back. In order to do that, you have to be able to master four core sacred soulmate signal processes. Number one is connection. Connection is your gateway to everything especially effective communication and connection with effective communication will help you explore compatibility and then saving, exploding that chemistry. But in order to be able to explore the compatibility and find out just how strong and powerful that chemistry is, connection and effective communication are essential and those are the four building blocks. So look for excellence, expertise and most of all, experience. So start with experience then look for expertise and then the excellence is in the process. For me, I’ve lived this struggle. Four weddings, three wives, two divorces, one amazing son. It took me a while, three decades. It doesn’t have to take most people that long. There’s an amazing way that you can build a soulmate or a relationship blueprint. So the two criteria for me as far as excellence goes is build a soulmate blueprint and then accelerate your attraction. Magnetize yourself. Once you have that blueprint and you know who you want, you know what they look like, you know their characteristics, their traits, their likes, their dislikes, wants, don’t wants, must haves, deal breakers then you can get into accelerating that attraction making sure that you attract the right kind of candidates and start dating and relating with the right soulmate potential person and persons. So when it comes down to the level of excellence, having someone who’s lived that struggle and who’s been through it creates a level of empathy that can get deeper in touch with where you’re at and what’s going on and of course, living that dream with my sweetness, my amazing soulmate now for eight years, I have a lot of background both in failure on a personal level and success on a coaching level. So when it comes down to the experience, make sure it’s there. When it comes down to the expertise, make sure that the mastery level of what you’re looking for and what that coach is bringing to the equation are also a good match because you wanna also connect with the coach, make sure you’re building effective communication so that you can explore the compatibility and the chemistry with your ideal dream partner candidates. Your soulmate is out there waiting for you. It’s time and if the time is now for you then great. Use this video. Experience, expertise and excellence. Go out there and get a coach. When you do look at the coach beyond those three Es, you’re looking for three Gs. Someone who will be a guide. Do you blend well with that coach? Can they guide you? Do they have their own practice that they’re using like a spiritual practice? For me, my spiritual practice and my alignment with my intuition is essential to be able to apply all the techniques and the tools and take that experience and be able to help individual clients to move to get growth using the four Cs. So guidance, growth. Using the four core sacred soulmate signals of connection, communication, compatibility and chemistry and finally, someone who can make sure you are reaching and achieving your goals and keeping you accountable. My very first client that I had was able to find her soulmate in less than four months. I love to deliver more than I promise to clients so that we can really explode their expectations and make their goals happen. We start with little baby steps and we move on from there. So when you’re looking for a coach, what should you look for in a coach? Expertise, experience, excellence. First, experience then expertise and then look for the excellence. If they check mark on the experience, go to the expertise, check that out and then look for excellence in the way that you interact with them and what they bring to the table for you so they can be your guide, help you grow and help you reach your goals. So remember, subscribe to this channel if you like what you’re hearing and like this video and of course, as always, join us in our private group. The link is on this screen or below this video. So until the next time, this is Milan wishing you amazing dating success and relationship mastery. Bye for now.
You may not know him when you see him. But you will know him by how you feel with him.
Here are important subtleties to feel for, plus my personal story of how I met and married my dream soulmate wife…
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To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
P.S. Have a question about this video or any other question? Then come ask in our Facebook group. I’m in there daily and look forward to meeting you.
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Today, how to recognize your soulmate. Hi, welcome, it’s me Milan with Tuning in to the One, the place where you can find, attract, and build and grow true lasting love, finding your ideal dream soulmate, someone that you can spend the rest of your life with. Invest, explore, have amazing experiences. So welcome and welcome back. If you like our series on tuningintotheone.com about love, about soulmates, about the ability to not only find, attract, and then build and grow true lasting love, then please like us and subscribe to our channel. And as always, if you’d like to join us in our private group, click on the link on this video or right below this video and join us. Private questions, private space and place that’s safe, where you can get all of your questions answered and make sure that any burning issues that come up or any situations can get handled. Join us, it’s a wonderful community, we’d love to have you. Today, how do you recognize your soulmate or a soulmate? Is there such a thing as only one soulmate? Or do we have different kinds of soulmates? Well, obviously, there are really special relationships that touch us deeply and that seem to have a little bit of something special going on. I know for me when I met my sweet Nesit, we met at a workshop in a seminar on neurolinguistics. The first time I shook her hand when we were saying hello, she later told me electricity shot through her entire body. Now, I dunno about you but my experience is that doesn’t happen every time I meet someone. Then we had a conversation and decided we were gonna meet for coffee and it was just gonna be for a couple of questions that she had about some topics that I was helping to facilitate and teach and she wanted some answers and I said, hey, why don’t we meet for coffee and let’s talk? So we met for coffee, turned out to be our first date. Something that would’ve normally been a half an hour or hour lasted all day. I found myself driving home going like, wow, I think I might’ve just met the one. And there’s something special about those relationships, so how do you recognize your soulmate? Well, one of the characteristics and traits that are often times found is that you are able to find that connection and that communication and it’s not verbal, it’s without speaking. There’s something special going on, there’s something in your gut that tells you, you found the one. I mean, the exact words in my self-talk driving home were, I think I just met the one. There’s a palpable chemistry, it’s physical, it’s visual, it’s smell, old-factory oriented, something about it just says, wow, ding, boing, bong, and you’re just like something unusual is happening to me. You have a sense of comfort and a knowing there’s a mediate rapport between you two that’s unexplainable in terms of rational, normal, meeting every day people. And, if you look at a course in miracles, there’s a entire section that’s dedicated to special relationships. Recognizing your soulmate is recognizing that there is a special experience, relationship, moment, situation, intersection of two beings happening. The relationship doesn’t always necessarily turn out to be rainbows and beautiful things, because the other thing that happens when we meet that special someone, that ideal dream partner, is there’s a lot of things going on, we might have a lot of stuff that we’re bringing with us and they might have a lot of their own stuff and it could all get triggered. So recognize that it’s not always just rainbows, that there will be moments, opportunities, exchanges, experiences, that’ll have you going like, wow, it’ll be like a roller coaster ride, because there are things going on, layers are being peeled back, the real you underneath all that stuff, all that baggage, all those things that might’ve happened is getting pulled back to the light and it’s looking to find its disillusion and disappearance from your life. So recognize that there’ll be that kind of inexplicable, non-verbal communication that has you going like, wow. There’ll be those moments that are just incredible, that will just be unpalpably different. The chemistry, the electricity, the smells, the situations, you just mind be dumbfounded, or you might just be amazingly aware that even in the little things, there just seems to be amazing moments. I remember the first time that we physically touched, I felt like there was some unusual energy going through my body and it wasn’t just kind of like the strictly physical stuff, it was like something deep and profound is happening to me. So other things that’ll happen is that you all of a sudden find yourself not only feeling very comfortable with the person, but there’ll be this deep sense of either oh my god, oh my god, I’m either gonna run towards this or I gotta turn around and run away. There’ll be that dramatic sense of awesomeness of awe that’ll have you going like, this, I’m not sure about this, this is kinda like short circuiting my normal process, something deeper’s going on. You’re gonna have separate identities but recognizing your soulmate means recognizing your compliment mirror-person that’s there to help you and you to help them guide each other through this process of both being human and being a spiritual being and those two things just have amazing chemical, non-verbal, palpably awesome, in awe kind of things that are going on and you’ll be moved to have this kind of like I have to do something here, I find myself compelled, there’s a compulsion of meeting somebody, it’s amazing, it’s incredible, it’s awesome. Having been through four weddings, three wives, two divorces and have one amazing son, there is a amazing difference the first time I met my sweet Nesit, my soulmate, my true love, that is different from almost any other relationship. It’s very special, it’s very unique, and it had some amazingly unique properties in terms of how we met, what that felt like, how we proceeded, and all the stuff that went through until we have this inner peace and this amazing oneness, independent identities, separate people, just deep, deep, deep profound gratitude. Happy holidays, wishing you an amazing holiday season as we wind down 2016 and looking forward to absolutely an even more fantastic, incredible, full of love, joy, peace, amazing opportunities for just breathing in life for 2017. Until the next time, this is Milan saying bye for now.
It starts with your Soulmate Attraction Blueprint, but that’s part of only one of the three pillars I want to share with you today…
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To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
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Hi, and welcome, it’s Milan with Tuning Into the One. The place and space where you can find, attract, and build true lasting love, and today, the best way to attract a really good man into your life today, tomorrow, in the near future. How do you do it? What are the different pieces of that particular puzzle? Well, the best way to attract a really good man is to follow a very simple and basic recipe. It’s only got three components. The tools, the environment, and the energy. The tools are what you use in terms of getting yourself ready, in terms of attraction from the standpoint of going out there and doing those things that will let the man know you’re interested. And to find the right man in the right way in the right way in the right place at the right time, especially these days, why? Well because there’s so much on the digital dating front, and what happens is we really experience what I would call different degrees of separation when it comes down to digital dating. The best example I have is Nokia, which started in Finland, and the Finns were very challenged to speak to each other one on one when it came down to personal conversations. But something amazing happened when the introduction of cell phones happened. All the sudden, they started interacting like crazy because this degree of separation where they didn’t have to be face-to-face in front of each other, talking to each other, seemed to open up a whole new world of communication. So digital dating or getting out there and dating online is amazing because the opportunities are truly endless. The downside is that you don’t have that same degree of intimacy, that same degree of personability. You have a degree of separation with online dating. So you have tremendous opportunity, lots of different places and spaces to look. The difference is you really want to think about what are the tools you’re using to find and attract that good man into your life. What’s the environment like, and the third piece is the energy, and that’s what you bring to the equation as well as what you’re attracting in from the standpoint of the other side. So the best way to attract a really good man, a ideal dream partner, soulmate, is to think in terms of what are the tools I’m using, what’s the environment I find myself in, and what is the energy that I’m bringing to the equation? So know what you want in your ideal dream soulmate and partner, and the best way to do this is to do our Soulmate Attraction Blueprint where you find out the wants, the don’t wants, the likes, the dislikes, the deal-breakers and the must-haves. What you want and what you want in a partner. Then do the Soulmate Manifesto Magnetization exercise and this has to do with the energy. So the first part is really the tools, the Soulmate Attraction Blueprint and then the Soulmate Manifesto Magnetization and exercise is the tool that you use to ramp up your energy to be able to do it deliberately. In other words, when you look at your tools, what are you using? Are you just using online tools? Are you actually using physical tools in terms of environment, and that would be clubs, places where you can have hobbies or interests expressed, community centers for activities, organizations where you share the same values, beliefs, or your interests. So Sierra club, biking club, hiking club, walking club. All kinds of different places where you have clubs, organizations, and activity centers where you can find different environments in which to put yourself in aside from where you go everyday. The grocery store, the gym. Those are also great places to meet wonderful people. The difference is you wanna have those tools, the Soulmate Attraction Blueprint and the Soulmate Manifesto Magnetization exercise that’ll allow you to really build up that energy, and when it comes down to your energy, what kind of a person are you emotionally, physically, and energetically? Are you a happy person, are you a fun person? Are you a funny person, are you shy? Are you an animal person? Are you looking for someone to take care of you, or are you afraid of being hurt or having someone break your heart? Are you a thrill-seeker looking to have your bucket list happen like yesterday, tomorrow, the next day, this year? Next year, we’re coming up on 2017. We’re winding down 2016, so it’s important. The best way to attract a really good man has three pieces. What are the tools you’re using to attract and to use, to find that platform and that place? What’s the environment you find yourself into? Is it the online environment, is it digital, is it real? Are you looking for places in your local community where you can actually find common values, common beliefs, common interests, common hobbies? And are you putting out a certain level of energy that’s deliberate? Or are you putting out energy that might be a little bit desperate? Or are you putting out an energy that’s just disinterested and you just, you know, you’re kinda like, “Hey, I’m done with this. “I’m just tired, I’m burned out. “Too many relationship wars, too many “battles, too many scars.” Whatever your situation is, three things you wanna look at to attract a really good man into your life. What are the tools your using, both online and in real life? We here at Tuning Into the One highly recommend and very, very, very much believe that what’s going to work for tuning into that one is the Soulmate Attraction Blueprint as your basis of what you’re looking for, what you want, why you want it, and what that looks like, and then the Soulmate Manifesto Magnetization exercise, which will help you to powerfully work on your energy from the inside out to attract that very thing you want. And then of course, what are you doing with your environment along with those tools that you got going for you? Are you looking in the right places? When you’re online, are you filtering? Are you putting statements like I don’t wanna waste my time, I don’t wanna waste your time? I’m looking for a long time, exclusive, monogamous relationship full of love, heartfelt connection and then use the Soulmate Attraction Blueprint to start asking the right questions, reading into the answers and making sure you’re attracting the right type of person into your life. So until the next time, this is Milan saying join us in our private little group. The link is right here on the video, right below it, or you can join us on Facebook as well, and check us out on tuningintotheone.com. Until the next time, this is Milan wishing you an amazing dating experience and relationship mastery. Bye for now.
If you’ve ever found yourself hurt, wondering “Is he just another jerk doing a disappearing act?,” you’re not alone.
Find out the real reasons men pull away, especially when you’re just starting to get serious…
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To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
P.S. Have a question about this video or any other question? Then come ask in our Facebook group. I’m in there daily and look forward to meeting you.
Video Transcript
Hi and welcome. It’s Milan with Tuning In to the One, the place and the space where you can find, attract, and build true lasting love with your ideal dream partner and soulmate. Today, why do men pull away after they get intimate in partnership, in dating, and in relationships? Well, it’s pretty straightforward and simple. They get scared. They get intimidated. They feel hurt and wounded. They feel inadequate. They start resenting you because you’re a better version of a man than they are and they’re lacking in authenticity, in honesty, in transparency, and they’re just plain not responsible. They’re not ready. Something scares them. Something intimidates them. Somehow they feel inadequate. They get angry and frustrated at some situation or they get resentful because you’re either too much of a woman or a better man than they are. The blame, the shame, the inadequacy and the criticism starts coming across, and either their inner voice or someone on the outside, maybe you, has shared with them: “What are you doing? “What’s going on?”, and it falls apart. When men fall apart from the inside out, they pull away. When they pull away, they don’t communicate. What they do is they go into their cave. Remember, while men have left the cave, the cave hasn’t really left the man! And so, men grow up physically, sometimes they grow up financially and have incredibly successful professional careers, but what they don’t have is emotional success. They haven’t dealt with their Fisher King wound. They haven’t dealt with being Peter Pan and running away from responsibility, from growing up emotionally, from having emotional intelligence to be able to speak to you. In the sacred soulmate signals, the four core secret soulmate signals are connection, compatibility, chemistry, and communication. Connection is the place where intimacy is built. When a man gets scared or intimidated or frustrated or angry or feels inadequate or thinks you’re just too good for him, he stops connecting, he disconnects, effective communication disappears, and you’re left wondering why. The blame, the shame, the inadequacy and the criticism comes from his inner voice to him; or your outer voice to him; or once he leaves, you’re like: “What happened?” Why do men leave and pull away after they’ve gotten intimate? The real reason is they haven’t grown up emotionally. They haven’t learned how to communicate. They don’t trust that the process will work out. That’s why the four core sacred soulmate signals are so essential. Building connection, exploring compatibility, and making sure you’re using effective communication to have that compatibility absolutely explored before you explode the chemistry that’s there, because once you are bonded through exploding the chemistry and physically sharing, then the oxytocin or the dopamine and all the other stuff is just coming in, and you’re asking yourself: “What happened?” What happened was he got scared, he got intimidated, he felt inadequate, he didn’t know how to deal with his anger or his frustration and his resentment, and he just pulled away. The taming of the shrew is something that a man doesn’t know how to handle. And what that means is he doesn’t know how to handle the impact of seeming conflict or criticism in a way that allows him to stand up and be a man, and say: “Yes, I own my stuff. “I’m gonna come with honesty, transparency, “accountability, and authenticity to the relationship. “I’m gonna honor the relationship, “and I’m going to do what it takes “to make sure we get through this. “Whatever I’m going through, I will share as best as I can, “and we’ll move forward.” But once that blame, that shame, that inadequacy, and that criticism takes over, whether it’s coming from his inner voice or your outer voice, he starts bolting. And when he closes down connection, he goes into his cave. When he goes into his cave, his ability to effectively communicate disappears. So, have hope. There are real men out there. They know what to do. They’ve gone through their Fisher King wound, which is something that might have been around for a long time, some inner unhealed wound that got triggered, and they’re ready to deal with it. They’re ready to be honest and transparent and responsible, or they’ve dealt with it and they’re over it. They won’t bail. So, if you wanna find out more, come and join us in our private group at TuningIntoTheOne.com or click the link on your screen right now or below the video, and you can join us in the private group and get all of your burning questions as well as those questions that have been around for a while, where you ask: “Why do men pull away “after they’ve gotten intimate?” The hot coal, the push-pull, all has a way of being dealt with, especially using the four core sacred soulmate signals. Come join us; you’ll be glad you did. Until the next time, this is Milan wishing you amazing dating success and relationship mastery. Bye for now.
Some people are outraged. Some people are overjoyed. And yet a few others couldn’t care less.
This isn’t a poltiical email, so I won’t tell you which camp I’m in.
You’re also welcome in my tribe regardless of how you’re feeling about Decision 2016.
Especially since my point here is about how we react to events.
Much of the time, we way overreact. That only becomes clear when we can look back later.
Pretty embarrassing sometimes, isn’t it?
Sometimes much worse. You can do irreparable relationship damage.
That’s why I tell my clients all the time:
“Pause for the cause.”
When the heat’s rising in you in the moment, and you want to erupt on the guy in front of you, steady yourself. Be the witness to the energy in motion (e-motion) without exploding.
All too often, we’re reacting to assumptions anyway.
Like the “WTF” in the subject line. What did you assume I meant?
Maybe I meant “Wow, that’s fickle.” Or “When there’s freckles.” Or something else. 🙂
We don’t know what we don’t know. And what we don’t even know about is pretty hard to fix.
That’s a killer when you want to meet Mr. Right, because you could be making the same mistakes over and over without ever realizing them.
So if you’re serious about having Mr. Right by the holidays next year, and you want my help (at no cost), go here.
