Why you can’t “have it all”

Nov 1, 2016

The worldwide women’s empowerment movement is AWESOME. Yet it’s also misleading women in a huge way.

The “You can have it all” message might bond the sisterhood, yet it doesn’t make any sense.

When you have limited time and energy, how can you have it all?

Of course, that depends on how you define “all.” From a spiritual perspective, you’re part of it all, so you can experience yourself as the All.

That said, after coaching literally 100s of women, that’s almost never how the message gets interpreted. So the message’s vagueness does more harm than good.

Especially when you’re looking for Mr. Right.

You’ve got to get clear about what you’re really willing to invest in the process.

Think on it for a minute.

You get up in the morning. You run through your routine. You dash off to work where you spend most of your time and energy. You get off at 5 or 6pm — or later?

How much time does that leave you before bed?

And how much of that time do you need for going to the gym, cooking, decompressing alone, prepping for the next day, etc?

Even when factoring in the weekends, you probably don’t have all the time you want to find Mr. Right.

Yet what about the family you want to start with him and the life you’ve been dreaming of all these years?

That awaits you — sooner than later if you go about it the efficient way.

That’s the way I show my clients. Which you can now access more affordably than ever with the launch of my group coaching program.

It’s not for everyone though, so go here only if you’re truly committed to having Mr. Right in your life ASAP.

To sharing your life with The One,

Milan

Yin yang yoga

Oct 29, 2016

You’ve got the energy right if you want Mr. Right.

To illustrate what I mean, here’s a quick example…

Some years ago, after a personal growth event I helped put on, I went to dinner with two of the key women behind the event.

Both were highly capable, whip-smart women who could rival any guy any day.

Yet when it came time to order, they asked me to decide on the food. They’d been making decisions all weekend, so they considered it a privilege to let me handle the dinner choices.

I got to feel in-service to these women — an extra honor because they were obviously capable of handling their own needs.

That’s what makes a great relationship, too.

You’re a modern woman. You’re out working, climbing your career ladder as high as you want to go and taking care of yourself.

We men do get that. And hat’s off to you!

Yet we still want the honor of helping you.

It’s like a dance. We want to lead in some ways, and you can lead in others.

Both partners taking charge to lead (the yang energy) at the same time just gets you bruised toes and a bitter heart — a big turn-off to potential future partners.

Worse still, when you’re leading in ways you want a man to, you’ll attract the wrong men AND bring out a version of even Mr. Right you don’t want.

Did you catch that?

It’s one of the biggest success secrets of happily-married couples.

They’ve sorted out who will lead when to feel in union (a.k.a. “yoga”).

For example, even though I love to cook, my sweet wifey often makes dinner while I work. We’re leading and being led in different ways, so we keep enjoying the dance day after day.

Yes, it takes practice. And there are a bunch of nuances to it.

To help you master the nuances and attract a man with just the right energy blend, you now have a chance at more affordable coaching than ever with me.

That’s because I’ve launched my group-based Soulmate Attraction Partnership with a bunch of juicy bonuses (including a couple of *years* of support for FREE).

If that sounds intriguing, first apply for a no-cost Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session with me.

You’ll walk way with all sorts of clarity and a new lightness. You may also get an invitation into the group program at the end if your situation is right for it. The program isn’t for everyone, after all.

To sharing your life with The One,

Milan

An astrologer and a lonely gal

Oct 27, 2016

Jess is lonely. “Time to see an astrologer,” she thinks.

Jess desperately wants to meet Mr. Right, get married and have three or four kids.

She’s already done her rounds on the dating scene to no avail. Coffee dates from dating site men, blind dates through friends and even random connections at get-togethers.

No Mr. Right in sight.

So Jess cuts to the chase when she sits down with the astrologer. “What do you see in my stars??”

The astrologer, a wise-looking gray-bearded man, pauses for a moment to breathe deeply before speaking.

“For the first 36 years of your life, you will be fraught with loneliness.”

“Okay! Well, I’m 35 now, so what happens after 36?”

The astrologer pauses again, then locks eyes with Jess.

“You’ll get used to it.”

Not exactly what our gal wanted to hear!

But the astrologer still pointed out an important lesson:

You can control how you feel, regardless of what you have or don’t have.

Easier said than done if you don’t have food, but not having Mr. Right isn’t the same as starving.

The happier you become, the more magnetic you become to Mr. Right.

That’s been a consistent theme among my clients. For example, I remember one woman who initially came for help just feeling happier. She said “I feel broken. Help fix me.”

Almost immediately, she gushed that she also wanted to meet a man.

Guess what? She met a great guy a few months into our unknotting her issues.

Same for me. That’s how I ultimately attracted in my darling wife, Nesit.

You can do it, too.

Notice when you’re not happy and reflect on why. You’ll find which beliefs are holding back your happiness.

For attracting your Mr. Right, all my clients start with the Soulmate Attraction Blueprint and Soulmate Manifesto. Both are bedrock in my system.

That’s why I’m giving you the whole first module of my paid product free, to guide you through them on video.

Not sure how long it’ll be available like this, so go take advantage now.

To sharing your life with The One,

Milan

P.S. I also just launched my Soulmate Attraction Partnership group coaching program. Getting my personal help to attract Mr. Right is now vastly more affordable.

To see you qualify, apply for a Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session with me. You’ll walk away with all the clarity listed on that page — even if we clarify that the group program isn’t right for you.

Ohhhh the irony…

Oct 25, 2016

A funny thing often happens when I ask women to describe their dream wedding…

Their eyebrows shoot skyward into their hairlines.

Their eyes light up.

Their hands flair outward to start describing their ornately elegant dress, as if they were wearing it.

Then, they flow into describing where the wedding would be, how the whole place would be decorated and who’d be there.

Women are incredible with detail, especially when there’s so much emotion underneath.

Yet there’s something curious missing from the dream invisibly playing out.

Can you guess what it is?

Hint: It happens to be the reason you’re having the wedding in the first place.

Well, not “it.”

More like “he.” I’m talking about the dream guy you’re marrying!

No, I’m not saying you can see his face clearly and you’ll meet a guy who looks exactly like that. We both know real life rarely works that way.

Yet how much have you clarified what’s most important about your Mr. Right?… Your must-haves and deal-breakers.

Yes, daydreaming about the stationary for your wedding invitations may seem like more fun at first.

But why?

Usually because there’s a LOT more fear about spec’ing out Mr. Right and being disappointed. You won’t have that fear about stationary.

After all, what happened in previous relationships when you weren’t clear about what you required?

Exactly.

That’s why I’m gifting you today with the whole first module from an upcoming paid product, walking you through what you need to know about your Mr. Right and how to clarify it.

This is exactly the process I took myself to meet my beautiful sweet wife, Nesit. After two failed marriages, I was determined to create and follow a simple (and yes, even fun) process that just plain worked.

Of course, it’s also the process my clients all go through — one of whom met her match in only four months after struggling to even find dates.

So, if you’re serious about living in lasting love, go take advantage here.

To sharing your life with The One,

Milan