Somebody once told me that and, after taking a few seconds to parse it, it made sense.
Hurt people usually hurt other people.
And themselves.
Think about it…
When you’re feeling joyous and loving, do you do hurt people? Or do you uplift them?
When my first wife walked out on me on her birthday years ago, I was devastated.
While things between us were rough for awhile, seeing it end like that seared my soul.
It felt like I’m guessing a Civil War amputation without anasthesia would feel. I could hardly take the pain.
I barely ate for weeks, wasting away 15 pounds from my frame in a horribly unhealthy way.
You can imagine the pain I also caused others during that time.
Yet I wouldn’t be here if I hadn’t consciously chosen a healing path. Time alone can’t heal all wounds.
So the greatest service you can ever do for yourself and others is to consciously heal your deepest hurts.
That’s why, as we wind down 2015, I’m giving you a simple process from an ancient Hawaiian tradition to begin your healing.
Please give yourself this healing gift. It only takes a few minutes.
And, if you’ve decided that attracting your Mr. Right is an urgent priority, then a FREE one-on-one Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session with me might be right for you…
As a starting point, it’s really important to start with a blank slate with each man.
Don’t be the gal who thinks “Most men can’t be trusted” because men will pick up on that energy and trust *you* less.
Which destroys the opportunity for connection.
And when there’s no connection, a woman with trust issues may see the man as “shut down” or “evasive.”
Which she then interprets as “…so he can’t be trusted.”
It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Which just reinforces the tragic “Most men can’t be trusted” myth.
Around and around we go. It’s a deep-spiral into misery.
Instead, do what I share in today’s video.
That way, you can build a foundation of trust, on which you can build your dream relationship.
And, if you’ve decided that attracting your Mr. Right is an urgent priority, then a FREE one-on-one Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session with me might be right for you…
Once upon a time, there was a woman named Marie who could over-the-moon happy.
Err, sometimes.
But rarely.
Most of the time, she was torn between how things were and how she wished for them to be.
She wished her linoleum-tiled living room floor could be all hickory hardwood.
When her stomach growled for dinner, she wished she could cook her favorite kind of Indian curry (cauliflower with coconut milk…mmm…) instead of nuking another cup o’ noodles.
And when the guy she was dating came over, she wished he’d wear buttoned-down dressy shirts with collars and bring her flowers.
Hey, to each her own.
Point is, Marie was miserable most of them — all because of how she chose to see things.
How much of Marie do you see in yourself?
If you even said “A little bit,” go watch today’s video. It’s for you.
Of course, you can certainly decide that some things are must-haves.
Then you can seek out a man who matches up.
No matter what though, no man will ever be 100% the way you want 100% of the time.
So please, if that’s what you’re longing for, give yourself the gift in today’s message.
And, if you’ve decided that attracting your Mr. Right is an urgent priority, then a FREE one-on-one Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session with me might be right for you…
The guy who’s a full-grown man who still acts like a kid.
Maybe he sounds like the whole world is a locker room where he can talk his smack.
Or maybe he seems nice yet changes the subject when you ask him about his goals and ambitions. He’s still in ‘play’ mode most of the time.
There are all kinds of versions of Peter Pan out there.
Some are just more blatant than others.
Either way, many Peter Pans can be alluring at first.
Why?
Because they still have that childlike quality that many adults are hungry to have a little more of.
Note that I said a *little* more of.
When you pair up with Peter Pan, it’s like drinking down a whole bottle of cough syrup when when you just needed a teaspoon to come back to balance.
You’ll get even sicker than you were. MUCH sicker.
What’s worse, Peter Pan is only one type of toxic man.
Watch today’s video for 4 more types of toxic men to watch out for.
And, if you’ve decided that attracting your Mr. Right is an urgent priority, then a FREE one-on-one Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session with me might be right for you…
Now there’s a word I’ve heard countless times from women about men!
“The guy’s emails on XYZ online dating site never quite answered my questions about his work.”
Creepy.
“The guy kept asking to text me but didn’t want to meet.”
Creepy.
“After we did meet for the first time, he seemed hotly jealous that I might be meeting other men — even though I never openly said I was.”
Creepy for sure.
Reminds me of the old Pat Benatar song, “Love is a Battlefield.”
But love and life can be more like a fun dance if you spot the red flags early on. That way, you can smear off the Mr. Wrongs from your dance card.
So watch today’s video for 7 of the biggest red flags to look out for.
And, if you’ve decided that attracting your Mr. Right is an urgent priority, then a FREE one-on-one Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session with me might be right for you…
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