by Milan Botica | Nov 24, 2016 | Emails
It’s Thanksgiving here in the U.S. — the perfect time to tell you how thankful I am for YOU.
Your courage to keep bounding forward on your quest for Mr. Right is inspiring. And I’m honored to help you in your journey, break-downs and all.
Sooo, since you know appreciation attracts what you want that much faster, what are you thankful for today?
Reply back and share. It’d be great to hear from you and keep cheering you on.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Nov 22, 2016 | Emails
Google made a BIG mistake last year…
Their Photos app tagged two black people in a photo as gorillas.
OOPS.
That didn’t go over too well in the press. (USA Today, The Wall Street Journal and others ran full articles about it).
So much for employing the smartest people in the world to build the smartest software in the world.
Don’t get me wrong. Their technology is still amazing. It’s just nowhere near as amazing as human beings at some things.
Image analysis, for starters lol.
Software is also far from perfect at sizing up character, partially because it rarely has enough real-world data.
Your favorite dating site or app tells you he’s a 93% match, but you know something’s off as soon as you get on the phone.
Been there, done that, got the t-shirt?
Too many women have.
I’m NOT saying to avoid dating sites and apps. They can be excellent tools. You just have to apply your own filters on top.
That’s where you need crystal clarity about what you’re really looking for in a guy.
Sadly, that’s also where too many women falter.
It doesn’t have to be that way for you.
Especially since you can get one-on-one help from me at no cost, if you qualify. It’s how I see if you’re right and ripe for my group coaching program, but you get all kinds of clarity in the process.
So apply for a no-cost Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session by Friday night and get a bonus Online Dating Profile Review with my partner, Sunni, if you’re accepted. (He’s a pro copywriter, which means he’s an expert at wooing with words!)
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Nov 19, 2016 | Emails
The Talmud is one of those ancient spiritual texts with timeless truth.
In case you’re wondering what the Talmud is, it’s a tome of laws and doctrines written before the 8th century, A.D. by Jewish teachers.
Amidst all the wisdom, this one line gets me:
“We see things not as they are, but as we are.”
I don’t know if the translation is perfect or the exact context of the statement. But it’s still SO true.
That means Mr. Right could be standing right in front of you without you recognizing him.
Why?
Even as a conscious personal-growth-embracing woman, maybe you’re projecting a past trauma on him, thinking he’s less than “marriage material” because of X, Y or Z.
Our beliefs shape how we see the world. And our traumas shape our beliefs.
But how do you know if you’re missing quality guys who walk right by you?
Frustration, anger, resentment, sadness… really any emotion other than flowing happiness.
This is just how the Law of Attraction works.
If you want to work with moi to clear that stuff ASAP so you can be with The One ASAP, go here to apply for a FREE Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session.
If you apply before Friday, November 25th at 9PM Pacific and are accepted, my partner, Sunni, will also give you an Online Dating Profile Review.
No charge for all the value. We want you to enjoy the holidays this time next year with your dream guy by your side.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Nov 17, 2016 | Emails
This is a profound Zen proverb…
Before enlightenment:
Chop wood
Carry water
After enlightenment:
Chop wood
Carry water
In other words, no matter how enlightened you get, you still have to take care of your physical life.
You’ve got to have clean water, food, clothes to keep warm and shelter to stay safe.
Same with marriage.
What happens after you marry The One?
You can have the most lavish wedding and honeymoon you’ve ever dreamt of, yet that all ends.
So what kind of guy would you enjoy doing the “chop wood” and “carry water” parts of life with?
Way too many of us plan more for the wedding and the honeymoon than the cooking, the dishes, the laundry, the budgeting and everything else we’ll need for a healthy partnership.
(You’d be amazed how much fun my wife and I have just doing this “humdrum” stuff.)
We choose the wrong partners because we’re not thinking of the right real-life situations.
I’ve lost count of the women have confessed to this mistake in our coaching sessions.
Of course, many women feel less fun (and a lot less clear) how to pick a guy they’ll enjoy being with day to day.
If that’s you and you want personal help, then apply for a no-cost Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session with me.
If you’re right for my new group program after we talk, you’ll get 2 Dynamic Date Planner sessions to plan any dates you want. But only if you apply for your Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session by tomorrow (Friday, November 18) night.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Nov 15, 2016 | Emails
How was your work day?
No matter how stressful it was, there’s one work situation almost guaranteed to skyrocket your stress.
Yet it can be SO tempting because meeting quality men these days feels hard.
You’re busy with work all day long. And men don’t usually show up where you go on your off-time, like your yoga classes or gym.
But dating coworkers (the situation I’ve slinked into talking about lol) isn’t usually a good idea.
It seems like such a great idea on the surface. You’re at the same company in the same industry. You’ve got plenty of time together and so much to talk about when you get home.
Until it becomes a breeding ground for misunderstandings, turning your relationship toxic FAST.
Now what? You still need to show up every day and spend all day together at work.
Separating work from romance is smart for your sanity.
Are there exceptions?
Yes, of course. My partner here at Tuning into the One, Sunni, knows a couple who met and got married at a place he worked a decade ago. They’re still together.
But for every success story like that, there are countless horror stories. Dating coworkers is a slippery slope. So, if you’re going to do it, be careful. You may waste precious time much better invested attracting Mr. Right elsewhere.
Want my help sorting out your love life so you can be with Mr. Right ASAP? Go here to apply for a no-cost Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session.
If we mutually decide you’re a fit for my group program at the end, you’ll get 2 Dynamic Date Planner sessions with me to plan any dates you want.
That is, ONLY if you apply for your Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session by this Friday, November 18th.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
by Milan Botica | Nov 12, 2016 | Emails
Whether you love or hate Hillary Clinton, she’s got something many women dream about.
What is it?
Well, politically, she stepped out of hubby Bill’s shadow way back in Arkansas when he was running for Governor. She had a strong voice and used it.
She’s also had an impressive list of roles in her life… First Lady, Senator, Secretary of State and Democratic Nominee for President.
She’s helped crack the glass ceiling for women everywhere. We’ve all got to give her credit.
Yet her personal life has been a mess.
Bill was a skirt-chaser well after they got married. The whole Monica Lewinsky scandal was just the biggest PR disaster in a string of Bill’s cheating.
You can imagine the pain behind closed doors. And the public labels people put on her for “standing by her man.”
But through it all, she’s had one label so many women — even the Hillary haters — dream of:
Mom.
Hillary gave birth to Chelsea at age 32. She prioritized starting her family, even though she had bigger aspirations.
If you want to become a mom, are you doing that?
If not, what’s stopping you? Unless you’re planning on freezing your eggs, adopting or something else, there’s a finite time window to have kids.
“I need to find a guy!” is the most common answer.
Makes sense! So how are you going about it?
Many women are looping around in frustrating circles.
If that’s you and you’ve decided you’re DONE with it but want help making a beeline for Mr. Right, go here.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
P.S. If we do a Soulmate Attraction Blueprint Session and you’re right for my group coaching program, you’ll get 2 Dynamic Date Planner sessions with me to plan any dates you want — if you enroll by this Friday, November 18th.
Women have found the date-planning guidance priceless for sifting our Mr. Wrongs before they wasted much time on them.
