I love a good story of women finding Mr. Right — especially with online dating, which many of us are so skeptical of.
One gal, Amy, found her hubby through a dating app. Her story sounds semi-normal at first glance, yet she got a CRUCIAL part right many women don’t…
Amy dated for years. That part is easy to relate to. She was depressed to come up empty after so long, with countless friends reminding along the way how there “still plenty of fish in the sea.”
Yeah… right. She just wanted one (THE One), yet he didn’t seem to exist.
So she did something many women aren’t willing to consciously do… She gave up.
She went to work every day, came home and cooked for herself. Sometimes she went out with friends to laugh and talk for a change.
Months went by. She got antsy. The mental portrait of husband and kids tugged at her night and day.
Amy installed some dating apps on her phone to explore. Not a big deal to swipe on some profiles in the evenings before bed, right?
Swiping eventually led to a few text chats, but with most conversations going nowhere.
Then she finally went on some dates, with almost all prospects wilting like fresh roses in the summer sun on the first date. She only went out with a few guys more than once.
Yet one of them turned out to be her Mr. Right. How great is that?
Persistence was key. No doubt. Yet so was having a dating profile that enticed men enough to click and engage with her.
What’s the #1 part of your profile any man will look at first and linger on?
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Video Transcript
Hi and welcome, this is Milan with Tuning Into the One. Welcome and welcome back. Today, what women should look for in a dating coach. Dating, relationships and mating, partnership, marriage, that’s right. So when you’re looking for a dating coach and specifically if you’re in California as I am in the Los Angles, the greater southern California area, sometimes you feel like the dating game can be very specific to your locality and there are a lot of specificities that are unique to your particular area or region, wherever you happen to be. In California as well as specifically to the southern California marketplace, you’re dealing with nuances, where people live, access to a local geography, whatever that may be. What women should look for in a dating coach specific to their area like in California or in southern California is going to translate to other areas. So maybe you’re in LA. I know some people personally who are actually looking from California, from the Los Angeles area, from SoCal to date people internationally and that’s great but whatever the criteria here is you’re looking for three things and they all start with E. So there’s three Es. Experience, expertise and excellence. Again, that’s experience, expertise and excellence. When it comes down to experience, you want somebody who’s been in the dating pool or knows how to go after it, someone who’s been in relationships or knows how to help you find, attract and live in true lasting love with your soulmate, your dream partner. At Tuning Into the One, that’s where we focus. Find, attract and live in true lasting love. So when it comes down to experience, I’ve helped over 250 private VIP clients and I’ve helped women from all around the world to be able to work on their existing relationships and for those women that were dating zeroes or having zero dates or just weren’t in the game and wanted to get back in or they’re just going through a tough time, they’ve just ended a bad marriage or they ended a good marriage and it just didn’t finish the way they thought it would or their person who they thought was their shining knight in armor all of a sudden decided they wanted out. All of those situations have one thing in common. When you’re looking for a dating coach who can help you with the relationships and build back up to finding, attracting and living in true lasting love with your ideal dream partner, your soulmate, you want to make sure they have the experience in terms of clientele to be able to help you then you wanna make sure they also have the expertise. What are their processes, what are their techniques? Where have they honed their craft and are they using their full potential, not just certain visual techniques, not just certain processes but all of it? We’re holistic people. When it comes down to expertise for me in particular and my clientele, I am a master at understanding the male mind and how to help women read men’s signals better, read men’s signals accurately and be able to send the right response signals and messages back. In order to do that, you have to be able to master four core sacred soulmate signal processes. Number one is connection. Connection is your gateway to everything especially effective communication and connection with effective communication will help you explore compatibility and then saving, exploding that chemistry. But in order to be able to explore the compatibility and find out just how strong and powerful that chemistry is, connection and effective communication are essential and those are the four building blocks. So look for excellence, expertise and most of all, experience. So start with experience then look for expertise and then the excellence is in the process. For me, I’ve lived this struggle. Four weddings, three wives, two divorces, one amazing son. It took me a while, three decades. It doesn’t have to take most people that long. There’s an amazing way that you can build a soulmate or a relationship blueprint. So the two criteria for me as far as excellence goes is build a soulmate blueprint and then accelerate your attraction. Magnetize yourself. Once you have that blueprint and you know who you want, you know what they look like, you know their characteristics, their traits, their likes, their dislikes, wants, don’t wants, must haves, deal breakers then you can get into accelerating that attraction making sure that you attract the right kind of candidates and start dating and relating with the right soulmate potential person and persons. So when it comes down to the level of excellence, having someone who’s lived that struggle and who’s been through it creates a level of empathy that can get deeper in touch with where you’re at and what’s going on and of course, living that dream with my sweetness, my amazing soulmate now for eight years, I have a lot of background both in failure on a personal level and success on a coaching level. So when it comes down to the experience, make sure it’s there. When it comes down to the expertise, make sure that the mastery level of what you’re looking for and what that coach is bringing to the equation are also a good match because you wanna also connect with the coach, make sure you’re building effective communication so that you can explore the compatibility and the chemistry with your ideal dream partner candidates. Your soulmate is out there waiting for you. It’s time and if the time is now for you then great. Use this video. Experience, expertise and excellence. Go out there and get a coach. When you do look at the coach beyond those three Es, you’re looking for three Gs. Someone who will be a guide. Do you blend well with that coach? Can they guide you? Do they have their own practice that they’re using like a spiritual practice? For me, my spiritual practice and my alignment with my intuition is essential to be able to apply all the techniques and the tools and take that experience and be able to help individual clients to move to get growth using the four Cs. So guidance, growth. Using the four core sacred soulmate signals of connection, communication, compatibility and chemistry and finally, someone who can make sure you are reaching and achieving your goals and keeping you accountable. My very first client that I had was able to find her soulmate in less than four months. I love to deliver more than I promise to clients so that we can really explode their expectations and make their goals happen. We start with little baby steps and we move on from there. So when you’re looking for a coach, what should you look for in a coach? Expertise, experience, excellence. First, experience then expertise and then look for the excellence. If they check mark on the experience, go to the expertise, check that out and then look for excellence in the way that you interact with them and what they bring to the table for you so they can be your guide, help you grow and help you reach your goals. So remember, subscribe to this channel if you like what you’re hearing and like this video and of course, as always, join us in our private group. The link is on this screen or below this video. So until the next time, this is Milan wishing you amazing dating success and relationship mastery. Bye for now.
But a Japanese guy (pics at the end) went for a silicone doll after an unsatisfying marriage.
You might guess how the “relationship” started. The 3-letter word starts with “S”… and ends with “X.”
Who says there aren’t any quality men left? lol
Joking aside, let’s look at this in a heart-centered human way.
Like most of us, he just wanted to feel love and companionship. And this was the way that worked for him.
He could’ve probably found that with a real woman if he worked with a coach like me, but so be it.
The same could be said of most women…
They’re filling “the void” with other ways to feel love and companionship.
Not usually silicone dolls (no judgment here), yet if what they’re doing works, great.
How about you? You wouldn’t be on this list if you found a satisfying alternative to being with The One, would you?
Getting clear on exactly what you want in him and with him is the tricky part.
That’s where Module 1 of my How to Attract Your Soulmate in Your Spare Time course comes in mighty handy. I guide you to clarity step by step with videos and worksheets.
This is the same process that got my first client her Mr. Right in only 4 months.
Best yet, you can get it free here for now.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
P.S. Here’s the article with pics about the Japanese guy and his silicone girlfriend.
That’s what some women call the popular dating site, OkCupid lol.
Lots of questionable men on there, apparently.
Okay… Weirdos. Pervs. Jerks. The whole moldy trail mix.
Hence the “OkStupid.”
But it’s not just that site.
Or even dating sites in general.
That’s the WORLD.
The same world of ~7 billion people also has countless great guys in it.
And at least one of them is “The One” for you. You believe that, don’t you?
So focus on that. You know from the Law of Attraction that you get what you focus on and feel intensely. You get what you filter for.
Of course, the challenge is cleaning up your vibration from all the hurts still active because you’re scared they’ll happen again.
Totally understandable. You’re scared like anybody would be when they don’t understand certain fundamentals.
That’s what I’m here to give you about men, so you can finally have Mr. Right. So if you’re ready to stop settling for being alone or the weirdos and jerks out there, then do yourself a favor…
One client, Laura, went from saying “I feel broken” in our first session to being with “a fabulous relationship” (her words) within a few months. I want that for you, too.
Don’t you?
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
P.S. If you apply by TOMORROW (Friday) night, December 16 and are accepted, you’ll also get a Dynamic Date Planner Session with me.
That’s where we put our minds together to plan any date in advance, to filter our Mr. Wrongs fast and know if you’re spending your time with a potential Mr. Right.
Sad news for a popular real estate reality show couple here in Southern California.
They’re Splitsville, or at least announced plans to be.
Yes, Christina and Tarek of the popular Flip or Flop tv show on HGTV made waves with that news yesterday.
Some weren’t surprised, considering police were called to their house back on May 23 for “a possibly suicidal man with a gun.”
Maybe you’re thinking I’m going to say, “See, this is what can happen from working together all day every day,” as I talked about before. (I had an import-export business in a previous marriage, so I know!)
But nope.
This email is actually about that assumption.
Assumptions are so dangerous. As the ever-cheeky Mark Twain put it:
“It ain’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so.”
In other words, assumptions.
Assumptions about men can keep you lonely and frustrated for a long time, maybe even a lifetime.
Just like the wonderful gal well into her 30’s who struggled with men her whole life until she came to me. And she met her Mr. Right 4 months later!
I can’t guarantee results like hers because everyone is different, but if you want my no-cost help to DRASTICALLY accelerate your time to attract Mr. Right, go here to apply.
To sharing your life with The One,
Milan
P.S. If you apply by Friday night, December 16 and are accepted, you’ll also get a Dynamic Date Planner Session with me.
That’s where we put our minds together to plan any date in advance, to filter our Mr. Wrongs fast and know if you’re spending your time with a potential Mr. Right.
