Outrageous authenticity

by Milan Botica | Feb 4, 2017 | Emails

Are you worried about scaring men off by being yourself?

I mean, totally authentically YOU.

What if a man left because you’re more fully expressed?

How could he possibly be Mr. Right if he doesn’t like the REAL you?

Of course, you can’t just parade your whole life in front of him upfront. That won’t work.

Pacing your sharing is still important to avoid overwhelm.

But that’s like any conversation. You don’t bring a thousand pages of information to share in a conversation.

Unless you’re a lawyer. And that’s for work, not play. 🙂

So the real question is, what’s a small part of yourself you can share that you normally don’t?

To sharing your life with The One,

Milan

A 5-star man meal at McDonald’s?

by Milan Botica | Jan 31, 2017 | Emails

One of women’s biggest complaints is that they can’t find “good men.”

“Quality men” is another common phrase for that.

Either way, it basically boils down to men who are authentic, honest and relationship-minded.

Right?

So then I ask these women where they’re meeting men.

And I hear answers like “bars,” “Tinder” and other free dating sites.

I’m not knocking any of those places. Because people have found love and happy marriages from every one of them.

But what you *usually* get is lots of time-wasting guys who play games and want hookups more than getting hitched.

If you go looking for a 5-star meal at McDonald’s, don’t be disappointed if you don’t find it.

So, if you don’t want to burn out on attracting the right man, put yourself in places where they’re likely to be…

With married friends who can introduce you to their single friends.

In yoga studios, where the men are more centered and seeking spiritual union. (If they’re serious about spiritual union, they’re likely more serious about relationship union, though not always.)

On marriage-minded sites like Eharmony, JDate or various others.

I know, I know… you don’t want to chase. I get it.

This is about inspired action (a key part of the Law of Attraction), not blind chasing.

If you’re inspired to be with a marriage-minded man, let that inspiration take you to where they are.

Your V.I.B.E. attracts in your tribe (likeminded people):

V = Values
I = Identities
B = Beliefs
E = Expectations

Module 2 of my How to Attract Your Soulmate in Your Spare Time course is all about this. It’s called…drumroll please…Dialing Up Your V.I.B.E.!

Go here to grab the whole course now.

I’m running the live Soulmate Attraction Intensive web workshop soon for buyers, so now’s the time to get the course if you haven’t.

To sharing your life with The One,

Milan

They got married from a wrong-number text

by Milan Botica | Jan 21, 2017 | Emails

Seriously.

Kasey Bergh was on a business trip in Denver in 2012 when someone she was supposed to meet didn’t show up.

So she texted a co-worker she knew locally.

Except they hadn’t talked in awhile, and the co-worker had a new number.

A guy named Henry Glendening now had the old number.

Yet, even after she realized her mistake, Kasey’s intuition told her to keep texting with Henry.

She just felt a connection. (In text, at least.)

At first, Henry was heading to work but said he’d be “down to hang” otherwise. Their first coffee date wasn’t far off.

Which is where things *really* got interesting…

Turns out Kasey was 53 years old, while Henry was only 23.

Yet the more Kasey and Henry got to know each other, the more they found they had in common…

They both loved the same music, like Death Cab for Cutie and The Flaming Lips…

And the same books, like Paulo Coelho’s The Alchemist and Dr. Wayne Dyer’s The Power of Intention…

And adventure, like cris-crossing the U.S. scouting out coffee shops and trekking through Europe…

And cats. (They now have 3 — Scooter, Sabrina and Lula. :-))

You know what else *really* stood out about this story?

Speaking of her divorce six years earlier, Kasey said, “I had totally embraced I was single and that I never needed a guy. Then I met Henry.”

Of course, that’s how Law of Attraction works. When you want something but don’t need it, that’s when your attraction signal is strongest.

And it brings you exactly the right person. Even if your guy won’t be 31 years younger. 😉

How do I usually help woman get the Law of Attraction to finally work for them?

A key way is showing them how to read men’s signals.

That clarity dissolves fear with men… which lets you start feeling the feelings of having Mr. Right without fear to energetically push him away.

Of course, clarifying what you want also helps big time.

If you want step-by-step help with this stuff, so you can attract Mr. Right from the inside out (instead of brute-force dating), get this now.

To sharing your life with The One,

Milan